“In this refreshing, conversation-starting book, Camillo effectively incorporates diverse
perspectives on gender socialization. . . . A provocative book that asks important
questions.”—Kirkus Reviews
What if the answers you’ve always wanted from men were finally laid bare—unfiltered,
anonymous, and startlingly honest?
In a time when the gender divide feels wider than ever and the need to find common ground grows more
urgent, women’s advocate Sandy Camillo bridges the gap with a fearless, eye-opening exploration of
what men are too afraid to say—and what’s standing in the way of true connection.
The Shocking Truth Behind What Men REALLY Think About Women is an unabashed examination of
the hidden dynamics of male–female relationships—past and present. Drawing from an anonymous
survey conducted by Survey Monkey,* Camillo reveals the raw, unspoken thoughts that often go unsaid
out of fear, shame, or misunderstanding.
Ever wondered what the men in your life actually think about topics like . . .
1. Should women still be the primary caregivers at home?
2. Would you be okay if your partner made more money than you?
3. What does romance really mean to you?
Through data, historical insight, and the narratives of three fictional male friends who candidly discuss
love, loss, attraction, and the women who’ve shaped them, Camillo pulls back the curtain on the
emotional truths we’re all hiding—and shows how bringing them into the open could be the key to better
communication.
With depth, humor, and data, Camillo offers a rare glimpse into the private corners of the male mind.
Whether you’re curious, skeptical, or brave, this book pulls no punches in revealing the good, the
bad, the brutally honest . . . and sometimes the downright ugly.
*The material in each chapter focuses on questions taken from an anonymous survey conducted
by Survey Monkey, an independent third party responsible for survey distribution and data
collection.
PRAISE
“A bold, necessary exploration of the way men truly perceive women, offering revelations that can help
reshape our societal narratives.”—Gloria L. Blackwell, CEO of the American Association of University
Women
“A rare and honest look into what men really think about women, making this book an invaluable
resource for leaders and decision-makers.”—Robert Romasco, past president of AARP
“Sandy Camillo’s insights into male–female dynamics are astute and sophisticated, making The Shocking
Truth an invaluable resource for HR professionals, managers, and therapists. Her understanding of gender
psychology beautifully explores the unique ways men and women think, feel, and act.”—Christopher
Bayer, PhD, The Wall Street Psychologist
“A candid, eye-opening perspective, providing a path to deeper connection, respect, and equality. This
book is an invaluable resource and essential reading for today’s world.”—Ruth E. Hedges, CEO of Rise
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